Happy holidays! Happy 'getting stressed out, trying to do too many things and please everyone' season. Oh, wait. That's not promising. I never understand why the holidays are always so stressful! They should be a time where we can relax and enjoy our loved ones. Maybe this is the year to mix it up a little and make the holidays easier and more enjoyable. 1. Forget perfection Sometimes gingerbread men will be missing a limb. The tree may have a bald spot. The hot dish may not